Advice on Thai Dating Customs – How to Date a Thai Woman

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The Easy Way To Date A Thai Woman

Everyone that has ever watched TV or known someone that has been to Thailand is aware of the sex industry here and that as a man arriving in Bangkok you are a prime target for prostitutes. For some men, this is the reason that they hopped onto the flight here, and sleazy, illicit fun is all that they are after. The Vietnam War was when prostitution in Thailand began to cater to foreigners, when American soldiers ventured off into the red-light districts near their military bases in Thailand. By the time the soldiers went back home, tourists were descending into Thailand to replace them, so the sex industry continued to prosper. Unfortunately this element of Thailand has given the country and Thai women in particular a tarnished image.

I Nathamon, the CEO and owner of Meet Me Now Bangkok, a dating agency situated in Bangkok, have turned away many Western men who came to the agency requesting sex workers.

How To Date A Real Thai Woman

My job is quite the opposite. I work to find an average Thai woman and Western men real love. In reality most women here are very prudent about their sexuality, and issues of an intimate nature are very private and discreet. If you are genuinely looking for an honest and emotional relationship, then you must be aware of the dating culture in Thailand and the way that a Thai woman expects to be treated.

What To Look Out For In A Thai Woman

Drugs and alcohol are a big problems in Thailand, and when on a date, a lady will be very conscious to see whether you have such issues. A Thai woman will be watching closely that you exercise self discipline and self control, and she will expect you to dress nicely and make an effort for the occasion. Aggression is seen as counterproductive in Thai culture, and it is of complete ignorance and lack of courtesy to show any volatile emotions in public. Even if you are a hot headed kind of person with a loud voice and extrovert personality, try to tone it down when you are out with a Thai woman, as what you would think of as normal, she may consider overwhelming.

As is still traditional in most countries, it is the man’s role to invite the Thai woman out on a date. In recent years however research has found that women are now taking the initiative to ask men out on dates especially as in the 19-27 category, women are currently earning more money. Both men and women wear perfumes or colognes, so women really do take account if you smell good. She will also be looking that you are clean and tidy.

If you are feeling strong emotions for a Thai woman right away, try and keep them discreet, as it is impolite and smothering to tell her too soon after you have met. Thai women like to take things slowly as they are very traditional and composed. Even if your Thai woman is feeling strongly for you too, she will definitely keep it quiet for the first few dates.

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What Should You Talk About With Your Thai Woman?

Do not talk about sex even in jest, as this will most probably embarrass her and make her feel very uncomfortable, as Thai women although intimate with their lovers, do not discuss sex in public or with people that they hardly know. Be prepared for the fact that if you go to meet a Thai girl’s family, then they along with her will then expect you to propose marriage. In Thai culture, if a girl brings home more than one man in a year then she is frowned upon, and most women only want to introduce one man in their lives. Also if you fly a lady out to your country, then they will expect marriage.


Make sure that you are on time for your date as Thai women do not look upon lateness kindly. Where you take her is also an essential aspect of any date, and taking a lady to a bar or club will only make her think that you are viewing her as a cheap prostitute like the stereotypes. With, you can have everything arranged for you, from the restaurant to the luxury transport to take you and your date there and back. A date with a new lady is stressful and nerve wracking enough without needing to worry about where to go or what to do. Run by both Thai and Western people, the Thai Lady Dating Events which they host, have knowledge from the best of both worlds.

The main thing to remember on a date with a Thai woman is to just have fun or as they would say ‘sanuk’. Relax, be polite and just get to know each other to see if that special spark can be lit. That’s the way to the heart of any Thai woman.